When the film begins, it is all over. “We know it’s terminal, and that’s all”, says Juliane of her mother Kerstin, who is in great pain and about to die aged just 64. Although the young doctor she consults acknowledges on a personal level that everyone has the right to manage their own death, he nonetheless reminds her that euthanasia is still illegal in Germany. This is even more the case at the Catholic hospice where Kerstin is staying. As relatives come to say goodbye to her mother and the emotions of memories mingle with the anticipation of grief, Juliane finds herself having to do battle with time – unbending, apathetic and monochrome – and this is superbly reflected in the convulsions of the handheld camera in wide shots. Based on personal experience, Jessica Krummacher’s second feature film vividly relates the painful story of losing a parent. There is no violence or morbidity, rather the director describes the most important of events via the smallest, most fragile of details – the exchanging of words, texts and tender gestures that remain with us and get under our skin.
3872 Time:2023-10-14
母亲选择用最原始但也最残忍的方式离开这个世界,女儿也在整个过程中参透了这段旅途的每片土地,用独有的方式与自己心爱之人挥手告别。原来死亡并不等同于瞬间完成的灵肉脱离,它也可以成为如同拉锯战一般漫长的等待,被写成一本难以翻开的但你不得不面对的书,用厚重的笔墨洋洋洒洒写下无数文字却最终迈向那个必然的结局。致我母亲的死亡,也是我内心最深处那片土地最终的挽歌。
now the pain will stop. 拍的很真实,像看纪录片,就感觉很残酷。
所有人都会面对的难题。
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